This discusses our fetishes and secret desires and where and how they fit into our lives, our living environment and how we at times live a double life. It can be exciting, it can be cruel, indeed ignorant people can be very cruel, but we can manage. This topic discusses what we do and how we do it and to what lengths we go to to feel fulfilled and enjoy what is part of our lives. Also should our cover be blown what do we then do? How do we cope living a life that we keep a secret, a secret only because those around us are narrow minded bigots and would judge us based upon their insular and pathetic mind sets. The situation is very real and not as limited as one would think. There are many people living secret lives for all sorts of reasons.