Many married people wish their union could be better. Nothing seems to go the way they want or thought it would. There are too many fights and too few compliments; there is not enough respect and too much criticism; and there is not enough intimacy. Marriage certainly is not like a fairytale book. In It’s Not about Me: A Guide to an Amazing Marriage, author and pastor Ken Hinkley helps couples discover why marriages suffer, and he offers ways to improve relationships. Using a host of examples, he takes an in-depth look at intimate relationships before and during a marriage, demonstrating the differences among the attitudes, actions, and consequences of “living for me” in contrast to living for others. Covering a range of topics from dating to trust to careers and children, It’s Not about Me provides insights on how to overcome difficulties in a marriage and shows couples how they can make their marriage look and feel like it was made in heaven.