Is there trouble in paradise? Are the alarm bells going off? Don't hit the snooze button. It might be too late when you finally wake up! Put that twitterpated, excited, yearning, get-a-room feeling back into your marriage. Falling in love was easy like in the fairy tales. Preventing divorce, staying in love and keeping your relationship vibrant and healthy can bring you back to reality with a painful jolt. All marriage castles have cracks that need filling and repairing before the walls disintegrate. It doesn't matter if you are vaguely dissatisfied, very dissatisfied or at the end of your rope this book will give you the keys to repair & strengthen your relationship. The information is presented in a way that's real, conversational, and extremely easy to use. Why? Because Debbie's experience being married for 33 years combined with her research on relationships gives her the unique ability to share with you these subjects in a very personal and upbeat way. You'll nod your head when you recognize a situation similar to your own, and feel the light bulb of understanding flash brilliantly when you get an "A-Ha!" moment about your own relationship issues. What's more, the concepts discussed are so universal yet so flexible that you can easily adapt any of them to fit the unique needs of your relationship and your circumstances. It is truly a wonderful resource for any relationship, no matter how long it has existed or the depth of problems it faces. Discover the Secrets: Go from criticism to compliments Get what you want out of you marriage Easy steps to rekindle the flame How to fall back into love again Keep from using sex as a weapon Be respected and valued in your marriage Stop the fighting, bitterness, and disappointment Increase affection and romance Stop being dumped on and run over Have your emotional needs met Have common visions and goals while retaining individuality Included in the 31 building blocks you will find out how to void the pitfalls that create strife, be given the "List Exercise" and "relationship quiz" to discover marital bliss also gift giving and dating ideas.