Finding Me, An Evolution Through Adoption is an amalgam of Roberta Rose from the start of her life,
through the present. This is about her family's secrets and lies regarding her very beginning. It tells a story of how her grandfather told her someone else was really her mother, something very difficult for a young child to comprehend. When Roberta finally told her adoptive mother "you can't tell me what to do, you're not my mother" -- it began to unravel the secrets being kept. Fiinding Me explains how her adoptive mother suffered from certain narcissistic tendencies, but it woud be much later in her life Roberta would discover they were not just tendencies, but a possible disorder. Roberta describes how she became involved in adoption refrm in North Carolina, which led her to not only changing laws, but joining a national organization. The readers of Finding Me will not just learn details of the author's life but also how her life's journey changed her beliefs about life.