Too often, a wife or husband wakes up one morning years after the wedding only to realize they do not truly know their spouse. B4 I Say I Do written by Tray Dunklin is a hybrid book, workbook combination written to help engaged, or soon-to-be engaged, couples get to know one another deeply before making a lifetime commitment before God. Within, the author shares actual marriage vows, and he asks couples to consider the promises these vows espouse carefully. Many individual questionnaires and activities are included for the future bride and groom that are designed to reveal potential marital issues before the wedding day. How well do you know your soon to be wife or husband? What are his or her current and future goals? What are your goals as a couple? Have you considered working together on finances? Do you know your future spouse's family history? Do you know his or her beliefs about sex before and after marriage? These issues and more are addressed within. Real-life testimonials of married couples are also included. Some of these marriage portraits are shared by couples who have been successfully married for decades, while others share the experiences of individuals who remarried after difficult, often painful, first marriages. All are embarking on marriage placing God in His rightful place-first. Upon completion of B4 I Say I Do, couples will be able to communicate about significant marital issues openly, and at the same time, they will build a closer relationship and a stronger emotional connection with one another. B4 I Say I Do is a must-read for anyone who might be considering marriage in the near future. It will help couples express their thoughts and feelings, and to decide whether marriage now is the right decision.