To let go of one's past can be difficult even though we've grown on our journey towards healing. We must believe that our "forward thinking" can get us to our next step. However, three steps forward can often result in two steps backwards. Divorce is never easy and as each day passes, if we heal just a little, we are well on our way to getting our "life" back as we once knew it to be.
Believing in ourselves and moving forward is the only way we can let go of those emotions that engulf our psyche. There is a path to healing; however, we must find it in our own way. Then and only then, can we be free--once again.
Your expedition forward will be a new adventure to hold dear. I wish the best to everyone who has triumphed from their journey, called "Divorce."